95-year-old former North Korean soldier in South campaigns to be sent to the North
https://apnews.com/article/north-korea-former-soldier-95-repatriation-75f61b7873006c0d77b1b94ae3ec9521?utm_source=flipboard&utm_medium=activitypub
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LisPi
in reply to LisPi • • •It's not some corposcum where there are obvious options.
The problem is far more diffuse and so are the logistics underpinning it.
LisPi
in reply to LisPi • • •I've been feeling considerably more disgusted and annoyed since I talked to someone who actually bought the "but the children" excuse for mass surveillance, /regardless/ of the authoritarian slide it provides.
What the fuck is wrong with people?
Even if there were to be /some/ harm in some content being available & sought out (which I'm skeptical about, the literature chooses to pathologize a lot of things I consider very debatable), this is /not/ the way to go about addressing it and it is /much/ more harmful to grow up surrounded by authoritarianism than any amount of infohazards.
djsumdog
in reply to LisPi • • •The current conservative moral panic around Internet porn only leads to less speech and more authoritarianism. If parents are concerned about porn, they can block it in the house. Some might say, "Well the kids will get to it anyway."
"So what?!" .. Parents can instill values, maybe even a sense of guilt. But in the end, kid is going to have to make their own moral decisions eventually. If a parent looks at porn but wants it blocked, on the State level, because it's bad for kids: the parent is a damn hypocrite and is also unable to parent without State intervention. Everyone suffers as a result of the moral panic.
Caleb James DeLisle
in reply to djsumdog • • •LisPi
in reply to Caleb James DeLisle • • •@cjd @djsumdog I think this can also lend itself to abusive micromanaging & disregard for privacy.
Early on perhaps, but more importantly would be education and being a resource that is actually trusted to be sought out without acting unreasonable & disincentivizing further trust & requests.
Caleb James DeLisle
in reply to LisPi • • •LisPi
in reply to Caleb James DeLisle • • •@cjd @djsumdog I don't have kids.
I'm working off a mix of readings, comparison with my own experience (granted I have to extrapolate some because the Internet became meaningfully available fairly late here) and just how hostile familial relationships would've turned with some differences.
Frequently I hear of experiences online of others' childhoods that make me think it is no wonder just how common familial estrangement is, as I would also have cut contact as soon as possible with the treatment I hear of.
I had my own issues, but fortunately most of them were outside of the home environment (instead many of them in school environments using outdated practices known (at the time to anyone actually keeping up with research) to be harmful or ineffective).
All to say that I can't give concrete "do this thing" or "I do XYZ" recommendations or annecdotes, I can mostly say "don't do XYZ".
Caleb James DeLisle
in reply to LisPi • • •I acknowledge that child abuse is a real thing that sometimes does happen. But I generally never tell another parent how to raise their children, and this is for the same reason I never tell a person how to invest their money.
If they take my advice and I turn out to be wrong, then it's their money that gets lost; or in the case of child-rearing, it's their bloodline that ends.
Most of the people that say there's a right and wrong way to raise a family wouldn't dare breath a word against Muslims or Orthodox Jews.
And what's more, these groups seem to have their houses in order much better than the average westerner who might have things to say about them.
The most opinionated investment advisor always seems to be the person with the worst finances of their own.
Mike Rockwell
in reply to Caleb James DeLisle • • •@cjd I wish there was a good way to limit some computers on the network to 56k modem speeds. I feel like much of the trouble kids get into on the web is because of download speeds being so high.
The internet is a lot less exciting when you have to wait 5-10 seconds for each webpage to load.
Caleb James DeLisle
in reply to Mike Rockwell • • •