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It was the 8th of june, I was sitting in math class(reken les) I was six. Doortje, my much older sister, had braided my hair in a fishtail braid that morning. In class the end of that braid was firmly being chewed on by my molars. I did not look up when the class door opened, paid no mind to the murmurs. I only looked up when my name was called out. "Noortje, the principal needs to see you in his office" My first response was to pull the braid from my teeth, and proclaim "but it wasn't me"
I was an angry child, i had fought, bitten screamed and broken things in the past, so being called to the principal usually meant i had done something, and was in trouble. I got up to walk to door, my mind already prepared to walk into that office, smell my mother's perfume (Chypre by Coty)and menthol, see her face with her lips pulled to thin stripes, signaling her rage. She would ask, "What did it do this time" she always referred to me as it*.
She would be told my transgression, scold me, and tell me "wait till your dad hears about this" i would be send back to class, finish the school day, be picked up by my mother, acosted on the car ride home. When home, i would be send to the study, and told to think hard about what i did, till my father would come home,.and when he did, i would be punished (severly) and be send to my room, without food. Doortje would sneak some to my room anyway. She would ask what i had done, snd comfort me.
It was something that happend before. I was prepared for this outcome. So that was what I had in the back of my mind. As i stepped to the class door, the asiatant principal (adjunct-directeur) told me i was to pack my bag and take it with me. I was not prepared for that, i was not prepared for everything that followed.
I protested, told again it wasn't me, i had not done it. The Teacher looked at me as the vice (thats the word) principal said "Noortje just, please ok?" There was a strange look
In her eyes, and a weird sound in her voice... as the angry girl i was, i groaned, grabbed my bag angrily and stormed out of the class room, and stomped to the principals office. Knocked on the door, and was told to come in.
There was no perfume, no Mother, just a chair i had expected her to be in, now occupied by one of the ladies from the schoolteam.
She wanted to know how i was doing, complimented the fishtail braid, and asked who had put it in.
Someone had hit his car hard, and he was in the hospital. I was 5 when that happened.
The school team lady walked me to the parking lot, where my grandmothers car was parked, i saw her sitting behind the wheel, full palming a cigarillo, the smoke of which escaped throug the small strip of the car window. She was staring out the front window, her hand that was full palming the cigarillo trembled.
As the lady knocked on the glass of the driver seat window, grandma "jump scared"
And i could see she had been crying, but...Grandma did not cry...
I was walked to the passenger side door, as the lady opened it i noticed my grandmother recompose her self, and greeted me like she always did, yet it was diffrent... "Hey, lil dragon (Draakje) you're gonna stay with me and your grandad for a bit, okay?"
I wanted to know why, but got no answer. The lady asked my grandmother if she was going to be ok.
This was my grandmother, i never saw her phased, why would she have to be ok?
When she told the lady she was fine, the lady told her, to call if she needed help. After saying she would, we drove of.
On the way home, she asked me if i was excited for the fieldtrip, and what i wanted to do with summer vacation. I responded, excited to go see the Penguins and the owls at the zoo...
This seemed to calm her down some, although that might have been my tangent about various animals as well.
When arriving at her house, she asked me if i wanted a coco milk with some vanilla
A chronophilia is a distinct type of sexual attraction pattern that varies as a function of the ages of preferred sexual targets.
Chronophilic categories, primary or exclusive sexual attraction to:
* Nepiophilia: toddlers and infants - under 5 * Pedophilia: pre-pubertal children, typically age 5 - 10 * Hebephilia: children 11–14 years, just at or past puberty * Ephebophilia: older minors just under or at age of consent * Teleiophilia: traditional reproductive age * Mesophilia: middle age * Gerontophilia: older age
People in the Nepiophilia to Hebephilia categories are typically prosecuted when they act on their attraction and should seek professional help.
Those in the Ephebophilia category may escape prosecution, but if they are significantly older than their targets, they are definitely predators who should be kept away from young people, e.g. not given jobs in professions where they are in contact with young people. They should be screened out systematically.
Note that any obsessive interest in a specific age category may be problematic.
This article responds specifically to the question if Hebephilia is a mental disorder or if it should be considered as normal.
"Hebephilia is a recently proposed diagnostic categorization in which people show a sexual preference for individuals in the early years of puberty, generally between the ages of 11 and 14. In contrast, pedophilia is a sexual preference for prepubescent children. You are correct in that hebephilia is not currently a mental disorder. However, the committee working on the newest edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (otherwise known as the DSM-V) has proposed that it become one. This set off a storm of controversy from evolutionary and forensic psychologists who disagree that these urges are pathological.
>>> Regardless of whether such urges are normal, the reasons it is not OK to have sex with an 11- to 14-year-old individual have to do with the imbalance of power and the high possibility of abuse. <<<
Kids that age are at a very vulnerable time in their life, when they are trying to deal with becoming sexual beings and figuring out how to transition into adulthood. They are very susceptible to influence, particularly from someone who is older and good at persuasion. Thus, any sexual encounter with a person vastly different in age is likely to be one-sided and almost always for the benefit of the older person. In other words, it would not be fair and the young person frequently gets hurt. This is why so many states have statutory rape laws.
Children are our very best natural resource but they are fragile and deserve our protection. Having sexual urges toward young people may be ‘normal’ but acting on them is not. Every healthy sexual encounter should involve the consent of all parties involved and this means that the person giving consent must be fully able to do so. Young people are still developing their cognitive capabilities so they often make poor decisions. This is why they are not legally allowed to give consent."
It seems that hebephilia is not uncommon. Indeed, some say it makes evolutionary sense in that women's highest levels of fertility are before the age of 20.
Russian troops also liberated five settlements in the Donetsk People's Republic and one in the Sumy Region over the past seven days, the Defense Ministry added
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This goes both ways. It's much harder for these clowns to quit the Army than it is to switch companies. And the supreme commander can now force them to do things, even if they think it's a stupid idea.
I have concerns that the current "freeing LA" nonsense is a bit of shock doctrine to lead the way to the Techno States ( theguardian.com/us-news/ng-int… )
Their (some DOGE guys) earlier involvement in releasing dam water felt weird and off. The current escalation seems related. Especially since there are constant rumblings online about how California should leave (which feels bot driven as well as organically parroted).
Feels like priming people to accept tech oligarchs swooping in.
They may not see it yet, but to me this looks like the techbros are surrendering to the other forces behind Trump. As already pointed out, they will now be subject to orders from the US forces hierarchy, so ultimately from whoever is running the White House. The products of those companies where these guys have majority control will be used to further the aims of the US government the same way as happens for similar organisations in China and Russia.
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Just as Putin's invasion of Ukraine was a direct consequence of the international community ignoring his annexing of half of Georgia, so Israel's attacks on Iran are a direct consequence of the international community ignoring the genocide in Gaza, the illegal occupation of the West Bank, the incursions in Syria and the attacks in Lebanon.
As long as they continue to face no consequences for their actions they will continue to widen their attacks.
I don't want to shout 'conspiracy' at every turn, but a billionaire friend of the Royal family dying by..... swallowing a bee...... come on, dudes. Why is it always the billionaires who die weird? Just a coincidence I suppose.
Heres Freeman Dyson, one of the smartest people ever to have lived, on climate change alarmism: The climate-studies people who work with models always tend to overestimate their models. They come to believe models are real and forget they are only models. Most of the evolution of life occurred on a planet substantially warmer than it is now and substantially richer in carbon dioxide. ... The amount of carbon dioxide CO2 is 0.0407. ... It is four one-hundredths of one percent: 407 parts per million This concentration is close to the minimum level to sustain robust plant growth. Three times the present level is ideal and is the level maintained in commercial greenhouses.
Une véritable grâce est celle de voir l’unique au travers des traditions.Cette grâce accorde le courage, l’audace nécessaire pour se maintenir en dehors d’une disposition d’esprit consistant à pens…
Derrick Broze of The Conscious Resistance joins us today to discuss Chapter 13 of his new documentary, The Pyramid of Power. We talk about what technocracy is, how people can opt out of systems of …
Can someone coherently explain Israel's strategy? I just get the feeling that if they keep attacking, they're going to give Iran no choice but to go all in. I don't see how that's a win for Israel.
🇾🇪🇮🇷 YEMEN está RETRANSMITIENDO EN DIRECTO el ATAQUE IRANÍ a Israel ante miles de espectadores.
Desde Saná hasta Teherán, la resistencia se sincroniza en tiempo real. No es solo una operación militar, es un mensaje global: la impunidad se está acabando y el mundo lo está viendo en directo.
Hours after Israel carried out an unprecedented attack targeting Iran, Trump is praising Israel’s “excellent” attack, which killed dozens of civilians...
Ya imagináis que sacar adelante una librería es un trabajo precario, no siempre puedes asegurar cubrir los gastos de un mes.
Poco a poco y con esfuerzo estamos dando pasos y por fin hemos podido abrir la tienda online: tienda.naubis.com
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@Pablo M Garrido🧄 Defense is what you do AFTER you are attacked, OFFENSE is when you attacked first, which is what Israel did. In the name of honesty, yea I know todays mainstream journalists aren't much into that, but in the name of honesty, let's get our terms right.
Sur #X, anciennement #Twitter, tout est affaire d'exposition. Par défaut, la plateforme rend publiques les listes d'abonnés et d'abonnements de chaque utilisateur. Pour beaucoup, cela n'a rien d'important. Mais pour d'autres, cette #transparence forcée pose problème. À l'heure où chaque geste #numérique peut être scruté, analysé ou instrumentalisé, contrôler sa visibilité devient un choix stratégique. Contrôler sa visibilité devient un choix stratégique
On May 28-29, Chinese Foreign Minister Wang Yi held bilateral meetings with his counterparts from South Pacific island nations on the sidelines of the Third China-Pacific Island Countries Foreign Ministers’ Meeting, held in the city of Xiamen in Chin…
... My solution for common Israelis and Arabs. Peaceful, natural gathering with friendly match off different kinds of sports. After all. We are all made the same way, and got the same ancestors. 🫠🫠
I don't buy the narrative of the imminence of an Iranian nuclear bomb. #Netanyahu has been singing that verse for the last 25 years. That's what he always wanted. War is the logical path of a fascist regime. It's always paranoid. Iran's capital sin is solidarity with the #Palestinians.
Former Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu said in remarks published Monday that he would support a pre-emptive strike against Iran’s nuclear program.
It’s not that every country is bowing down to Israel. It’s the elites in every country that are invested in Israel. It’s not a rogue state, it’s a rogue ideology!
Ultimately, it will be the tenacity of the Palestinians and the growing solidarity with their just cause that will eventually force FIFA to take action.
Ya don't say. I predicted these problems over 25 years ago. Hand sanitizers say 'kills 99.9%' which means the remaining are resistant. Same applies to all antibiotic use situations, and since gut flora is all bacteria, the bad will prevail after all are killed off and the reseeding begins
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TV and Movies advertise hopelessness to lower people's expectation of control. It's an attack on Freedom."pavlov and his dogs" https://www.simplypsychology.o...
I don't entirely believe the West-turning-on-Israel story (including Australia). So far, they're still sending weapons. I also don't entirely believe the US-EU split. NATO exists. This, in sporting parlance, looks like a dummy-play. Feigning one thing while doing another. Most importantly, you only do this kind of thing when executing a set move. The West appears to be executing a pre-planned operation. Which usually means war. Man, I hope I'm wrong.
@benda Keep in mind, that post was from almost a month ago. Back then, many Western countries were starting to say things like "Israel is going too far" and other nonsense, as if some threshold of evil had been reached. Here's an example: 9news.com.au/national/israel-h…
But you can find heaps of others.
Then there were various EU leaders bloviating about how Trump was such a danger and how they should go their own way. The moment the pressure came on, they snapped-to immediately.
Noortje Van Leeuwen
in reply to Noortje Van Leeuwen • • •I was an angry child, i had fought, bitten screamed and broken things in the past, so being called to the principal usually meant i had done something, and was in trouble.
I got up to walk to door, my mind already prepared to walk into that office, smell my mother's perfume (Chypre by Coty)and menthol, see her face with her lips pulled to thin stripes, signaling her rage.
She would ask,
"What did it do this time" she always referred to me as it*.
(This does not really translate well)
Noortje Van Leeuwen
in reply to Noortje Van Leeuwen • • •When home, i would be send to the study, and told to think hard about what i did, till my father would come home,.and when he did, i would be punished (severly) and be send to my room, without food.
Doortje would sneak some to my room anyway.
She would ask what i had done, snd comfort me.
Noortje Van Leeuwen
in reply to Noortje Van Leeuwen • • •It was something that happend before.
I was prepared for this outcome.
So that was what I had in the back of my mind.
As i stepped to the class door, the asiatant principal (adjunct-directeur) told me i was to pack my bag and take it with me.
I was not prepared for that, i was not prepared for everything that followed.
I protested, told again it wasn't me, i had not done it.
The Teacher looked at me as the vice (thats the word) principal said "Noortje just, please ok?" There was a strange look
Noortje Van Leeuwen
in reply to Noortje Van Leeuwen • • •In her eyes, and a weird sound in her voice... as the angry girl i was, i groaned, grabbed my bag angrily and stormed out of the class room, and stomped to the principals office.
Knocked on the door, and was told to come in.
There was no perfume, no Mother, just a chair i had expected her to be in, now occupied by one of the ladies from the schoolteam.
She wanted to know how i was doing, complimented the fishtail braid, and asked who had put it in.
When i told her whom had, her face turned
Noortje Van Leeuwen
in reply to Noortje Van Leeuwen • • •Grim, when she asked if that was my sister.
Somewhat happy i was seemingly not in trouble, i happily confirmed.
I knew the school team lady, she, my mother, and father, had spoken about me going to Special school before.
She swallowed, and told me, something had happend at home, and My grandmom was picking me up.
Hearing that, the tip of my braid went back into my mouth.
The last time "something" had happend at home, my father had been in a car collision.
Noortje Van Leeuwen
in reply to Noortje Van Leeuwen • • •Someone had hit his car hard, and he was in the hospital. I was 5 when that happened.
The school team lady walked me to the parking lot, where my grandmothers car was parked, i saw her sitting behind the wheel, full palming a cigarillo, the smoke of which escaped throug the small strip of the car window.
She was staring out the front window, her hand that was full palming the cigarillo trembled.
As the lady knocked on the glass of the driver seat window, grandma "jump scared"
Noortje Van Leeuwen
in reply to Noortje Van Leeuwen • • •And i could see she had been crying, but...Grandma did not cry...
I was walked to the passenger side door, as the lady opened it i noticed my grandmother recompose her self, and greeted me like she always did, yet it was diffrent...
"Hey, lil dragon (Draakje) you're gonna stay with me and your grandad for a bit, okay?"
I wanted to know why, but got no answer.
The lady asked my grandmother if she was going to be ok.
This was my grandmother, i never saw her phased, why would she have to be ok?
Noortje Van Leeuwen
in reply to Noortje Van Leeuwen • • •When she told the lady she was fine, the lady told her, to call if she needed help. After saying she would, we drove of.
On the way home, she asked me if i was excited for the fieldtrip, and what i wanted to do with summer vacation.
I responded, excited to go see the Penguins and the owls at the zoo...
This seemed to calm her down some, although that might have been my tangent about various animals as well.
When arriving at her house, she asked me if i wanted a coco milk with some vanilla
Noortje Van Leeuwen
in reply to Noortje Van Leeuwen • • •Ice cream.
I could sense the tension in her, but i told her yes, id like that.
As she started preparing it, she suddenly said, Doortje, liked the three flavor scoop with hers.
I could hear, she was crying.
Noortje Van Leeuwen
in reply to Noortje Van Leeuwen • • •{Trigger warning}
Ok this will be the hardest to type out.
It wont be a long one, i hope, i will describe some gruesome things, not in great detail, im not her for "gore porn"
So this your trigger warning....
Noortje Van Leeuwen
in reply to Noortje Van Leeuwen • • •Walking into the kitchen, he found my parents, my mother still holding the knife, and my father holding a bloody hammer, and Doortje dead.
The neighbour fled, called the cops.
My parents were arrested. And both got life imprisonment.
(A lot of legalese was involved)
Noortje Van Leeuwen
in reply to Noortje Van Leeuwen • • •Well thats it...thats the story, tied to the picture in my post of june 8th...
And its the reason my grandparents raised me.
Aral Balkan
in reply to Noortje Van Leeuwen • • •I have no words. I’m so sorry.
🫂
Noortje Van Leeuwen
in reply to Aral Balkan • • •