I always find it humorous when parents reply and make justifications for why we need bad laws (in this case it's in related to age verification for social media).

One parent (who probably should know better) said:

"In ever previous era, with every previous vice society has agreed to put at least some barriers in front of children and to do so in a mostly if not perfect way. Most 8 year olds cannot simply go get a case a beer anytime they want, and if they do there is ample opportunity for parents to find out about"

umm when I was a boy (ok, this is more like when my pop was a boy, but none-the-less the point remains) I could walk into a store and pick up beer and cigarettes for my dad.

More recently however (now actually in my life time) I could walk into a bar (and did at 16 alone in France) and ordered some bit of alcohol.

The point is that this is just logically misplaced thinking and wrong in so far as there is probably not a single "child protection" law that has been rolled out everywhere, actually needed, or been positive:

"society has agreed to put at least some barriers in front of children"

We can take this straight back to the early 1900s when the first laws were put in place to 'protect' children.

The consequences of restricting children from working for instance may have had good intentions (though it may also have been more about ensuring employment for adult men than protecting kids as our textbooks tell us... but lets not go there...) ... but ultimately it's either ignorant or intentionally malicious or something.

When a child has a choice of working and surviving or dying they're probably going to choose work even if that work is dangerous. It's naive and classist (akin to racist) to think you know better than them.

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in reply to Mr Penguin

nobody cared when i bought booze or tobacco with 14. nobody, not even my parents were (they certainly should've) giving a shit when i was shitface drunk aged twelve.

the problem with these laws is that they take away responsibility from parents and society because "there's a law against that!".

everyone just waits for the authority. which seldom acts, and if it acts it's most often the cases that don't make life hard for the authorities anyway.

in reply to 🌈ᚩ🌈

@bonifartius Yea, frankly I wasn't shit face drunk, but I had a few beers at 11. The world doesn't end. Was it illegal when and where I was? Absolutely. Should I have had the beer? Maybe not, but not because it was 'bad' for me. The beer just wasn't mine and I don't know whose beer it was. On that note though if it had been something else no one would have cared so... how 'wrong' it was is a bit harder to judge. Plus, when you factor in that I was forced through coercion and violence by government and others into said circumstances (prohibition on kids working, violence used against those who 'run away' to forcefully return them, etc) I lack much ?empathy? for 98% of those whom are 'victims'. The other 2% wouldn't partake in imprisoning youth and similar, so for them... aww maybe it's wrong.
in reply to Mr Penguin

making sure kids are safe is a tough issue. it's hard to make sure they aren't exploited. in the end the only thing which might prevent it is if everyone in a society really cares and acts accordingly, i guess.
in reply to 🌈ᚩ🌈

@bonifartius People don't give a rats ass if kids are being exploited. If they did we wouldn't have government education or child protective services or people buying iPhones with components sourced from China and derived from raw materials mined with child labor (despite that actually being a good thing as kids = working means kids not starving even if it does negatively impact health long term).

No, most just want to appear to care about the kids for votes, career advancement, financial exploitation (teachers unions, etc), literal child exploitation (law enforcement), other sorts of exploitation like sexual exploitation (football couch), and similar.

in reply to Nanook

The laws are stupid. I only had a few beers because of the 'juvenile' repression. Not because I ever enjoyed alcohol. Meanwhile it's no big deal in much of the world and the problem that is drinking is often negligible by comparison to more repressive regimes. It's not perfectly clear cut in-so-far-as there are different drivers in different places, but criminalizing stuff isn't some magic fix for societal problems and often just expands the damage.

Humorously even when you have the impact you want (say reduction in excess drinking) there are often other negative consequences. I don't recall the details, but they tried to curb drinking in the Soviet Union in Russia with some success, but it had the negative side effect of undermining the countries economy. It was to such a degree they reversed course very quickly.

This entry was edited (Monday, July 6, 2026, 10:09 PM)
in reply to Mr Penguin

@Mr Penguin Yea I don't care for the general trend of a move towards social credit system like China, and I don't think the state should substitute for the role of parents. If parents aren't willing to supervise their children and they access things they shouldn't, that's the parents responsibility not the state, and responsible adults should not be made to suffer on behalf of the irresponsible.

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